Queen Omaje

CHRONICLES OF GRATITUDE #DAY8 Today I thank God for my extended family. MUMMY GLORIA ,UNCLE DOUGLAS, AUNTY BENE, AUNTY ISI,  AUNTY PEACE. AND JETHRO. Dear Mummy Gloria, I thank you for taking your time to be part of my life and my family, Thank you for sharing our burdens and our Joy, Thank you for rooting for each and everyone of us. You're loved and celebrated. Dear Uncle Douglas, You've been a shield and support to me since my teenage hood. Thank for your support, your words of encouragement and Kindness. I am very happy for all that you've accomplished all these years. Love you always uncle. Dear Aunty Bene, Thank you! Thank you so much , for your good thoughts towards me. Thank for your compliments, Thank you for rooting and supporting, Thank you Aunty. Dear Aunty Peace, Thank you Aunty P , For all that you do for our family. We love you and appreciate you specially. Jethro, My guy, I thank you so much, you came into the family and fitted in so well, G...

CHRONICLES OF GRATITUDE #DAY7 Today I thank God for my Aunty , Aunty Awuli. My mummy's younger sister. You were such a peace maker. You were so good. The life you lived ,though short was Exemplary. I know you're in heaven, because you reconciled with God before you died. We still miss you. I thank you for all the "how to be a lady things you taught me" How you came visiting with goodies from mummy in Delta. You're Remembered.

CHRONICLES OF GRATITUDE #DAY6 Today am grateful for THE MADUABIBI'S Daddy And Mummy, I thank you for the warm reception you give anytime I visit home. Mummy will always tell JoJo when I come. "Jojo you no go make food for Chioma?" And all the transport money that daddy use to give me. God bless you sir. Jojo, My Big sister of life🤗 Where will I start to thank you abeg. All the times I raided your wardrobe and packed you clothes and shoes. You have always been there for me. Thank you for your support and your guidance. Such a disciplinarian ( I dey come with your money abeg😂) Thank you for all the honour you give to my family. You're a perfect big sis. Love you to bits. Aunty Tari💃💃 I hear that you love me. I love you tooooo! Thank you for your kindness towards me. To Goody and the rest of the squad. Thank you. You're family to me. I am sure your home is open to me anything am in need. God bless...

CHRONICLES OF GRATITUDE #DAY5 Today I Thank God for DADDY AND MUMMY WHTYE THE IYOYO'S THE SELEYE FUBARA'S THE ITA OKON'S THE ONWUKA'S THE DAVID AJAYI 'S THE ERAHBOR OF THE REDEEMED CHRISTIAN CHURCH OF GOD. Oh! Words Fail me! I Thank you Daddy whyte for Accepting me into your family, Like you did every youth in RCCG SHILOH PARISH. You're such a Father! Mummy white gave me my first Job. As a Manager at SHARON'S THREAD at Age 15/16 😂 And i delivered superbly! (My duties included, Taking clients orders, Overseeing tailors, Going to the market to buy fabrics, Paying tailors, Etc. Biko what else does a manger do?🙄) Aunty Teke is Mummy's Whyte's Sister. She was very kind to me as well. Very kind! (Aunty Teke the Nigerian child is now a global child oh) They always had the best thoughts for me. I thank you all so much. Thank you Daddy Iyoyo and Mummy Iyoyo. The Love you show one another is contagious. Your suppo...

CHRONICLES OF GRATITUDE #DAY4 Today I thank God for my Paternal family. I spent early years of my life with them and they were so good to me. To my Aunt, MRS JOY EJECHI. I thank you deeply mummy. The peace maker of the universe. Your heart is made of undiluted gold. I can't take you enough for your continuous understanding, Love and care. She makes it a duty to call me every week. " Chioma? How you dey na? I just say make I hear from you oh"  I will repay your goodness, I promise. To my Uncle , MR EJECHI. Daddy of life. I thank you so much for the fatherly role you played at the early stage of my life. Daddy treated me just like his own, Everything his children had, I had and even much more. He worked with NNPC, so he was on shift that closes by 2pm, so he made it a duty to pick me up from school every day that season. I usually walk to my Aunties shop after school together with my school mates , Then I go home from there, because its no distance. So when...

CHRONICLES OF GRATITUDE #DAY3 Today, Am grateful for an amazing Maternal Family. I bless God for the love and bond shared amongst us. To My Elder brother, KELVIN. You're the reason why I am in the right career path. After writing weac hundred times(exaggerated) , so I can clear the subjects I needed to study medicine. He called me and said, Oma what are your likes?  I said "I like to sing, I like make up , I like to dance ballet and I went on and on with my likes. After that, He said go and study Mass communication, You're art inclined. So I wrote NECO the next year and cleared all my papers. Not to mention all the times, you got into trouble because you were saving me from trouble. I love you pieces♥ To My Elder Sister , NK. You're the reason why my womanhood is whole. Thank you for teaching me how to Cook. Hailing me when its delicious and yabbing me when it's not. She will say "Na who hail you na? Yesterday own sweet pass this one&#128514...

CHRONICLES OF GRATITUDE #DAY2 Dear Pastor David Ibiyeomie, I want to thank you for answering your call. People wonder what it is I have with this man of God. Here it is . I suffered from Nocturnal enuresis, (bedwetting) for 18 years. This embarrassing sickness defiled every medication you can ever think of. I remember the one day of the 18 years that I was dry, My Aunty jumped up with so much excitement😂 (she said" hey! My pikin no piss today oh😂) My teenage hood was one lonely and desolate one because of this sickness. I couldn't visit extended family, I couldn't travel with others. It became a concern to both my Paternal and Maternal family, oh how dey loved me! There is no where we did not go to seek for cure. Just Name it! From the hottest of prayer houses to the Hottest of Native houses. Nothing I didn't drink or eat, It even got worst😂 I so dreaded the nights, because I knew once I slept , I am bound to wet the bed. ...

CHRONICLES OF GRATITUDE #DAY 1 Dear Mum, You're the best mum on earth. You're the wisest and the most loving. I want to thank you for all the sacrifices you made to see us happy today. You have a pure heart and you love us deeply. I specially thank you for always doing you best to ensure we are doing great. You're so Amazing. You're so kind and generous mummy. If I would choose a mother , I will choose you again because you're perfect for me. Am so proud of all the great decisions you made and how you're steadily building a future for us. I am sorry , I am not there to celebrate with you, I really wanted to but know my thoughts are with you. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE WORLD BEST MUM

CHRONICLES OF GRATITUDE #DAY1 Dear God, Today , I am grateful for the salvation of my soul. I thank you father that through the ups and downs you have strengthened me and lifted me up. I thank you father for choosing me to do and be things that my righteousness does not qualify me for. Thank you for your purpose and plans for my life. You're such a great Rewarder. Thank you for being God. Thank you for holding me. Thank you for the gift of the Holy spirit. Since I came to know him, trouble has been less in my life. Thank you for every time you showed up. Thank you for your prophecies, they sooth my soul. Thank you for all the times you saved me from trouble. I mess up and you do the clean up. My Master planner, Thank you for Always making your breast available for me to bask on. I call you and you answer. You're just more than enough. I pray earnestly that the man I marry is filled with your spirit. Because I don't want anything less than you love me. See...

DONT RUSH ME!!!!! That's what you should scream at everyone and everything that has made you felt like you were not good enough. Everyone that just want you to become without helping and nurturing you BECOME. Those who make you feel like you're not smart enough, great enough, better enough, or wise enough. They say, Oh God ,they would have choose someone else for such a greater destiny! Instead of you. Oh this call or purpose would have been better off for another. As i grow wiser I have realized a lot of things and I thank GOD is no Man! Let's learn to be patient with people. If you really feel you can't condone them, the best thing to do is excuse them. Dear sister,know and love yourself too much , to compare yourself with anyone , I personally don't do that. One of the Most Admirable media personality in Nigeria, Mrs Betty Irabor , suffered depression because she felt she wasn't good enough. Shamelessly told her story in her book "dust to dew...

PEDOPHILIA Sexual perversion in which children are the preferred sexual object;  specifically : a psychological disorder in which an  adult has sexual fantasies about or engages in  sexual acts with a prepubescent child. You're preferring a kid as a sexual object how? What kind of demonic desire is that? Oyibo people even glorified it with a name! "I had a story about a teacher who sexually abused a 2 year 11 months old child in Lagos and the school may win the case, because they have connections." If you dare touch my daughter or son indecently , whether you are her uncle oh, Aunty oh, Family Friends oh. I WILL DEAL WITH YOU. By the time i finish with you , the next time the so called pedophilia demon comes around you, you will beg it to locate the next host! EVIL! Parents Protect your kids, Pay attention to them. Teach them sex ...

I remember when my menstrual cycle started. I was washing clothes during holidays when I felt something dripping down my thighs, I took a peep and it was HER! My long awaited visitor.😂 Then in boarding school, it was a thing of pride, some sought of respect comes to you when your menstraul cycle begins. "As teenagers we will just keep asking each other , have you seen ? " 😂 I was familiar with alot of things then because our school mothers will always teach us all we need to know. They usually say "its an ushering into womanhood" I had a lot of girl care and didn't have to bother about much. But do you know that 70% of our girls especially in rural areas have little or no information about menstruation. I watched a documentary filmed in Accra where girls use "Cloth" as pad. ( in this century!) Its dysfunctional to Even use "Tissue paper" or "Cotton wool" because it blocks the flow talk more of "c...

Because you are a woman people will force their thinking on you, their boundaries and limitations on you . They will tell you how to behave, who you can meet, the limit of your visions and aspirations, and where you can go. Don't live in the shadows of people's judgment, make you own choice in the light of God's Wisdom. For people's Advice to you are born out of two things, their personal interest and genuine love for you. But most of the times its difficult to know which is WHICH. #FindGod #Knowhim #Foryourself Kodi. Till I think again.

One of our Awardees from our just concluded 2018 XPERIENCE WOMANITY CONFERENCE | AWARDS did this to her plaque. This picture said a lot to my soul, that I cannot yet translate to words. She said in her IG post that it was a significance of her success as she celebrates her 3rd year Anniversary. I was moved to tears of gratitude. Because really its MY SIGNIFICANCE for success. Because the aim of my NGO is to celebrate the success of other women and help the upcoming succeed. To see that this is happening gives me nothing but joy. I appreciated it specially, because she called this a CROWN on her EFFORT and made it look so as well. While other women will pick up theirs and never say thank you, they won't even come or call😂 "Ne me guy nno" Chai, we have to even do home delivery for some😂 Because I won't eat the plaque nau. But issorait. I just want to say: It doesn't matter the size of the Audience, Accolades, number of Weldon's, disdains or embarrassments , As...

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I am pulling this out to encourage someone today. My life is a testimony of "dreams turning into reality" I discovered my life purpose when I was 15 years old. I knew deep down in my heart that I was called to celebrate and inspire the African woman, teaching them how to live a purpose driven life. (my primary call on earth) The first edition of my conference was held in 2012 in a small church in Borokiri town just at UPE sand filled (I was 17 years old) The church supported me , gave me their equipments and generator. I also wrote to the ministry of women affairs , Rivers state and they sent me a Rep from FIDA who attended. Since I took a bold step in 2012 to birth my life purpose. This purpose has lighten up my path ever since. And the rest is history. Pursue tangible things,  its not like I don't know where they are selling IPhone 8 or Brazilian hair. Its not like I don't know how to take trips, snap plenty selfie and Snapchat videos. But I choose ...

°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°°° Life has taught me many lessons and i as i turn 24 , I will like to share 24 of them. I hope you learn a thing or two. #Blessings 1) GOOD IS NOT ENOUGH BE WISE I used to think if you are good girl everything will just work out for you,  No, You have to be WISE! Wisdom is the principal thing! 2) EMBRACE YOUR STRENGTH AND FORGET YOUR WEAKNESS Focus on your strength and forget about what you are not good at. To many times, i have wished to be this or that(because of people and their opinions ), truth is we cannot have it all or be it all, so you have to choose what comes natural for you. 3)FORGIVE AND FORGIVE I am grateful to my Local church Dominion city independence layout. (A Leadership institute indeed) My charact...

Hello , Thanks to everyone who reached out to me in my moment of introspection, All is well (Over Well) with me, I took a break from social media, into a 150 days journey of self rediscovery, Getting to know one’s self is a beautiful never-ending discovery that will help us advance in every aspect of our life. A pragmatic teacher  (Rev oyiks Alfred ) whom i respect alot wrote a post on her instagram page saying "Success in life demands Moments of seperation" (The past months has just been special) And as i went on this journey, i took out time to better understand myself. And i discovered some interesting things about myself, i will like to share with you guys. I am highly introverted. I know you will doubt (yea i know ,Because am a media personel, so i should pass for an extrovert) but i am, thats why i have missed your weddings, birthday parties, Meetings , Appiontments and events. I do not like crowd and gatherings especially ones with unfamiliar Faces. (I kno...